Waiting for UNHCR's Officials

“I never heard of my son opposing third country resettlement program,” lamented 79-year-old Bal Bahadur Khadka, who is filled with unplumbed agony of losing his son last month.

Bal Bahadur Khadka
Bal Bahadur Khadka

Several in camp have told Bal Bahadur that his son, Karna Bahadur, was murdered since he opposed resettlement program and always advocated for repatriation.

“He did not choose to resettle our family,” he said adding, “But, he always encouraged those willing go to America.”

He could put strong evidence to support his say – my son sent his eldest daughter and the youngest brother in America.

Bal Bahadur, who has low hearing capacity, saw a large crowd in his hut in the evening of September 8 when his son, Karna Bahadur, was murdered by two strangers in Beldangi-II camp. However, he never thought that such a brutal slaying had occurred in his own family.

When the family narrated whole the story to him the next morning, he just listened to a few words and went unconscious.

“Why don’t the UNHCR officials come to our hut to listen to our pain,” cried Bal Bahadur.

Bishnu Maya Khadka holds her husband photo
Bishnu Maya Khadka holds her husband photo

He had seen the UNHCR’s officials many times in the past during emergency in camp.

He wanted to ask the UNHCR’s Field Assistant and Protection Officer once regarding their silence.

“Everyday I see several vehicles of UNHCR and International Organization for Migration coming to this camp,” he told. “However, not a single vehicle comes here to console my family.”

Khadka expressed that at first he did not believe several fellow-countrymen telling him that his son was killed when he opposed resettlement.

“The UNHCR’s absence in my family has made me little convincing that my son was murdered according to their interest.”

According to his neighbors, Bal Bahadur walks alone along the road towards bangay Bazaar even during night, and always needs someone to look at him. They also claim that he was unable to follow his daily routine since the slaying.

“My son never did anything wrong. That is why thousands of well-wishers attended his funeral,” he uttered.

He was seen enthusiastic to talk to the UNHCR regarding his resettlement process since he was not assured of his security in camp.

“We can’t stay here anymore. We must to go for resettlement to save our lives.”

4 thoughts on “Waiting for UNHCR's Officials”

  1. It is indeed a sad thing to note this. People are “remembered” as long as they are useful.

    K B Dai has done a lot in helping UNHCR and IOM during times of need as far as I know.

    He was equally helpful to all the refugees whether they opted to resettle or not and hence was popular. Popularity sometimes becomes a liability because there are always scrupulous people behind who know how to scavenge only.

  2. Ma Nepal ko nagrikt bhae pani malai K BKhadka ko hattya ko message sunda arthath parda sharai dukha lageko chha ke chhan chhan ei bhotangey sarnarthi testo manish abha bhotangey le kaile pani bhet daina testo Rajabadi bhutan ko kina camp maa rakheko yesma Nepal sarkar le buddhi puraunu parchha chhanera camp baata simana katai di halnu parchha akhir maa ei sarnarthi le ke khojeko Sansar ma nepali ko Sir jhukai diye ei Bhotangey nepali hu bhanne le bholi gaera rupaya ko lagi Nepal ma pani eni haru le je jasto krya kalap garnu sakchhan yesta kukur ko jasto buddhi bhaeko pasu haru le Nepal sarkar le chito bhanda chito buddi purai halnu ati nai jaruri dekchhu ma khai Nepal ko janta le pani yesto K B ko pariwar le jasto dukha kasto bhognu na parosh bhanna chhanchhu

  3. This message is in response to Chandra Bangsi’s beastly irrational msg dated Oct 4th.
    Chandra ji,K B ko pariwar pratiko sahanuvuti ko nimti dhanyabaad.Tapaile you kura vulnu hudaina ki aparaadh sansaar ko sabai thauma hunchha.Aparaadhi ko naam jaati ra astitwa sanga kahile pani jodindaina. K B ko hatya Bhutani le gare vandaima sabai vutani hatyara hundainan. Raja Birendra ko hatya Bhutani le gareka thiye? Jana Bidhro aghi hajarau Nepali daju vai did bahini ko hatya bhutani le gareka thiye? Kewal aparadh garne aparadhi hun tara nepali hunu ko garba harek nepali ko ragat ma bagchha. tapai jasto nepali vayera pani nepali ko parivasa na janeko manchhe lai sabai vanda tallo sthar ko pasu vaninchha. you website maanisharuka laagi ho, pasu ko kubichar byakta garna ka laagi haina.

  4. when i heard that sad news i think there is not safe for other refugee to stay at camp it is better than camp if they resettle as soon as posible .i want to hear the criminal who killed the MR KB Khadka should be under arrest .hope nepal police will help to find out the criminal.

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